Syncopation
Michael, you are saying that my friend's behaviour is somehow subconsciously disturbing other people. You suggest that it might be because of abusive childhood. I still don't feel that my friend is syncopation causing person, I know worse cases and usually I don't associate with them when I notice the quality. He is in his own way charismatic and "direct" person which can agitate certain people. Indeed, there exist people whos folk psychology and manners create syncopation in enviroment. For example, when "opening heart" to someone in a serious matter and seeing the other one is faintly smiling, it feels so weird, disruptive! When asking, "What are you smiling at, this is a serious matter!", it makes the other one just laugh. I don't like that kind of people.
Michael, you are saying that my friend's behaviour is somehow subconsciously disturbing other people. You suggest that it might be because of abusive childhood. I still don't feel that my friend is syncopation causing person, I know worse cases and usually I don't associate with them when I notice the quality. He is in his own way charismatic and "direct" person which can agitate certain people. Indeed, there exist people whos folk psychology and manners create syncopation in enviroment. For example, when "opening heart" to someone in a serious matter and seeing the other one is faintly smiling, it feels so weird, disruptive! When asking, "What are you smiling at, this is a serious matter!", it makes the other one just laugh. I don't like that kind of people.
Indeed very entertaining, StierSifu. I will be totally honest, and admit that for your first few posts, I was wondering if you were indeed an internal arts master, for with the proliferation of underserving types who style themselves as "Sifu"s or "Master"s, I was prepared to be sceptical.
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