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    Hi everyone,
    I thought I'd just pass on this excellent book on avoidance and developing 'street smarts'. It's called; Violence, blunders and fractured jaws, by Marc Macyoung www.nononsenseselfdefense.com

    I got it yesterday and haven't put it down, it's also very applicable to understanding society from the family to government, as the author points out they operate by the same principles.

    I have to agree with his street rules which are;
    Life is predatory
    Human life is cheap
    You fight to win
    Civilized boundaries don't exist
    If you want it, and you can get away with it, take it
    Altruism, and charity, don't exist, betrayal and backstabbing do
    Jail is nothing more than a pain in the ass
    they feel the world owes them something
    they are scum

    That is the basic philosophy of 'street life' (listen to 50 cent), he also goes into operating systems which are principles that apply to all cultures, and how not to be anywhere near a situation that may turn violent.

    He is also very funny, especially when he talks about people folding faster than a kid with a playboy when someone walks in the room. His advice is really on point, I'm not very street smart, but I know certain things you don't do around certain people if you don't want to get beat up.

    I used to work with a guy who went to a grammar school, he did odd things that if I wasn't a tolerent guy, or if I were one of the people I used to go to school with, would have immediately resulted in getting my ass kicked. I now learned why he was like that, he probably never faced the real threat of getting beat up for not obeying someone's operating system, or he was just crazy. I should have taken him to one side and explained things to him. Bizzarely, I find characters like him come from grammar schools and the like. My friend who's in the army has come to blows with students who didn't respect his operating system, (you just spilled my pint your gonna pay for it? NO?!!!).

    Anyway a great book, I highly reccommend it. The author writes from experience.
    http://www.liberty-human-rights.org....ig-brother.pdf www.amnesty.org www.indymedia.org.uk

  • #2
    Hi Marcus,
    Originally posted by grammatoncleric
    I now learned why he was like that, he probably never faced the real threat of getting beat up for not obeying someone's operating system, or he was just crazy. I should have taken him to one side and explained things to him.
    Yes. Street life, for those who have lived it (or are still living it) is like a two side coin: on one hand you developp blockages, mental pains and wrong views, but on the other hand the Hard Knock Life teaches you both the baddest AND the best in human behaviour.

    You are confronted with real f**king evil people (sorry), and this can help you realize what you must AVOID.
    You are in contact with real Brothers with wonderful sharing and loving Heart (developed from knowing what 'missing', 'suffering', 'stressing', etc... mean), and this can help you realize how you should be happy to share a smile with a friend, a small piece of cake with your Mother, or listening music with a kind lady.

    From my +10 years of street life, I have seen people cheating, stealing from their parents, dealing drugs, borrowing money without returning it, insulting elderly people. I have seen people driving in stolen cars, some fighting for an eye contact. I have seen families destroyed by alcohol. Some people I knew went to jail, some are dead now. Some were good guys, but the hardness of society 'won the battle' and stole their Heart.

    One thing is sure: when you live like this, you developp an intuitive sense of self-protection and street analysis. And when you have nothing more than yourself, respect (expected from others) takes a great importance. Unfortunately, some people who had a more comfortable life sometimes do things without this in mind, and don't understand the reaction their are facing in response. Street life makes a man more sensitive to aggressivity, thus leading to fast 'counterattacks', in words or deeds...

    I don't mean one is right or wrong. Life is sometimes so difficult...

    I have found that opening my Heart and being, from time to time, more compassionate than as usual, has lead me to a more peacefull approach of life...and my relationship with others has greatly improved. I let go of useless thoughts and speculations, I let go of social judgement, I let go of others' reaction expectations...and am surprised at the diminution of problems I would have faced in the past.

    Also, maybe, as I am getting older, I can react more in tune with my environement.

    Just some thoughts,

    Take care,

    Maxime
    Last edited by Maxime; 19 January 2006, 06:42 PM.

    Maxime Citerne, Chinese Medicine, Qigong Healing & Internal Arts

    Frankfurt - Paris - Alsace


    France: www.institut-anicca.com

    Germany: www.anicca-institute.com

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    • #3
      The most important thing is to live a HAPPY and PEACEFUL life, without hurting others.

      Maxime Citerne, Chinese Medicine, Qigong Healing & Internal Arts

      Frankfurt - Paris - Alsace


      France: www.institut-anicca.com

      Germany: www.anicca-institute.com

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Maxime
        The most important thing is to live a HAPPY and PEACEFUL life, without hurting others.
        Preach brother preach! Can I get an amen!

        Sorry that was my hammish impersonation of a charismatic minister but I highlighted this quote because i agree very much with the sentiment and i second it. It was a nice enough quote to be written twice Im starting to realise that i want these same things also.

        Peace
        Mike
        from the ♥

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        • #5
          Violence, Blunders, and fractured jaws

          Good Day!

          Thanks for your answers and comments in this thread!

          Any way grammatoncleric if you read the book I wait for some comments about how they was or just comments!

          Have a nice days every one!

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          • #6
            Mike :

            thanks for your words. Of course, you understood that I was not trying to convey any authorative statement, but just to express my deeper feelings...
            (or should I build a church in my living room, where my computer is? )

            take care,

            Maxime

            Maxime Citerne, Chinese Medicine, Qigong Healing & Internal Arts

            Frankfurt - Paris - Alsace


            France: www.institut-anicca.com

            Germany: www.anicca-institute.com

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            • #7
              Violence, Blunders, and fractured jaws

              Hi!

              JAJAJA I understand! take care you too, from friend hugo- from could Sweden! jijijijij! Well the church is or own body! Bye !!!

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              • #8
                Hi Maxime,
                Thanks for your reply. You seem to be a very nice person. Glad boomtown (street life) didn't destroy your spirit.

                Hi Hugo,
                'Any way grammatoncleric if you read the book I wait for some comments about how they was or just comments!'
                Can you rewrite the sentence, didn't understand it.

                This guy is sooo funny. His views articulate mine in regards to self-defence, I found this interesting...
                Last edited by grammatoncleric; 22 January 2006, 04:20 PM.
                http://www.liberty-human-rights.org....ig-brother.pdf www.amnesty.org www.indymedia.org.uk

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                • #9
                  Violence, Blunders, and fractured jaws

                  Hi!

                  No problem I meant that comments are welcome!

                  good Bye!

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                  • #10
                    Hi guys,

                    Nothing much to add, but this guy really points towards the truth. After reading his book I look back at the way I used to think, and people I used to know, and do know think, and he is right.

                    He provides the principles guiding violent behaviour so you can use it to, avoid it.
                    http://www.liberty-human-rights.org....ig-brother.pdf www.amnesty.org www.indymedia.org.uk

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                    • #11
                      Hi again,

                      Just wanted to add, I wanted to be a 'tough' guy, I never wanted to feel intimidated or bullied again. I still have emotional inclinations towards it but I keep myself in check.
                      Before I embarked on the journey I read autobiographies of tough guy (Lenny Mclean, Geoff Thompson, Roy Shaw), and had 2 violent confrontations. I didn't want that life but I couldn't articulate why, until now, I hope you find this of some use to understanding our age of violence;

                      Marc Animal MacYoung takes a look at the realites not the fantasies of being a badass
                      http://www.liberty-human-rights.org....ig-brother.pdf www.amnesty.org www.indymedia.org.uk

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